Persuade is an applied improvisation exercise in which participants practice influencing others through active listening, building on offers, and authentic communication rather than scripted techniques. Drawing on the improv principle that agreement creates rapport, the exercise develops the ability to read an audience, adapt a message in real time, and lead through connection rather than pressure.

Structure

Setup

Participants work in pairs or small groups. The facilitator prepares a set of topics or scenarios for persuasion practice. Topics can range from practical workplace proposals to deliberately absurd positions that force creativity.

Progression

One participant receives a topic and must persuade their partner or group to support their position. The key constraint is that the persuader must use improv principles throughout: listening actively to objections, building on what the other person says rather than dismissing it, and adapting their approach based on the response they receive.

The facilitator may structure the exercise in rounds. In the first round, participants persuade using only facts and logic. In the second round, they add emotional appeal and personal narrative. In the third round, they combine both while actively incorporating their partner's responses into their argument.

After each round, partners provide feedback on what felt genuine, what felt manipulative, and at what point they felt most open to being persuaded.

Debrief

The group discusses the difference between persuasion that builds on connection and persuasion that relies on pressure. The facilitator draws out observations about how the "Yes, And" principle transforms adversarial persuasion into collaborative conversation.

How to Teach It

Objectives

Persuade teaches participants that influence is a collaborative act, not a one-directional push. The exercise demonstrates that the most effective persuasion happens when the speaker listens as much as they talk, treating objections as offers to build on rather than obstacles to overcome. This reframes persuasion from a win-lose contest into a shared exploration.

How to Explain It

"You are going to persuade your partner to agree with a position. But here is the rule: you must listen to everything they say and build on it. If they object, use their objection as material. If they offer a counterpoint, acknowledge it before adding your own. The goal is not to defeat their argument but to bring them along."

Scaffolding

Begin with low-stakes or absurd topics to remove the pressure of real persuasion. Arguing that Tuesdays should be renamed removes the anxiety that comes with persuading a colleague about a budget proposal. Once participants understand the listening-based approach, move to realistic professional scenarios.

For groups that default to debate-style argumentation, pause the exercise and ask the persuader to repeat back what their partner just said before making their next point. This forces genuine listening.

Common Pitfalls

The most common issue is participants who acknowledge their partner's point superficially before pivoting back to their original script. Coach them to let the acknowledgment change their approach, not just precede it.

A second issue is participants who confuse agreement with persuasion. The exercise is not about giving in. It is about finding the genuine overlap between two positions and building from there.

In Applied Settings

Persuade is used in sales training, leadership development, and stakeholder management workshops. The exercise helps professionals move from scripted pitches to adaptive conversations that respond to the actual concerns of the person in front of them. Facilitators use it to demonstrate that the "Yes, And" principle from improv applies directly to negotiation and influence: acknowledging what the other person says before adding your own perspective creates trust and openness that pressure tactics cannot achieve.

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