Pairs have a conversation about anything without using the word I. Forces speakers to focus on speaking in terms of we and you rather than self-centered language.

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Me, Me, Me Syndrome

Me-Me-Me Syndrome is an applied improv exercise that surfaces and interrupts the habitual tendency to redirect conversations toward oneself -- to respond to a colleague's story, concern, or idea by relating it back to one's own experience rather than staying with theirs. The exercise makes this pattern visible through structured conversation in which participants are coached to notice and resist the autobiographical redirect, building the capacity for genuine other-directed attention.

Gibberish Games

Gibberish Games is an applied exercise in which two participants hold a conversation entirely in made-up, invented language -- gibberish -- while a third person translates for the rest of the group. The exercise trains attention to nonverbal cues: tone, rhythm, gesture, facial expression, and physical presence carry the meaning that words normally would. Participants learn to read and respond to a speaker's full communicative body rather than filtering attention through vocabulary alone.

Yes But vs Yes And Conversation

Participants pair off and hold conversations starting every sentence with 'Yes, but...' then switch to 'Yes, and...' to experience how language choice impacts connection and energy.

Touch to Talk and Eye Contact to Speak

Pairs have a conversation where neither person can speak without first making physical contact or strong eye contact. Shows that communication requires a connected partner.

Conch Shell

Conch Shell is an applied improvisation exercise in which a physical object serves as a speaking token: only the person holding the object may speak. The mechanic enforces one-voice-at-a-time give-and-take in group conversations, making unequal participation patterns visible and creating structured space for voices that are typically crowded out by more dominant speakers.

Word-at-a-Time Partners

Partners stand side-by-side and speak as one person, each saying one word at a time to make sentences on a 'How to' topic.

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